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Medical Aesthetic & Skincare Clinic
DR HEATHER BLAYLOCK
MBBCh (WITS)
General Practitioner in Sexual Health and Aesthetics
(Fellow of European Committee of Sexual Medicine)
#CAPESEXUALHEALTH
Dr Heather graduated from WITS in 1998 and draws on her experience, from Psychiatry, assisting for cardio thoracic surgery, Aesthetic Medicine, Non-surgical aesthetic gynaecology, for her passion, Sexual Medicine. She attended the European Society of Sexual Medicine (ESSM) school in Budapest and met her tribe; like minded sex academics and achieved becoming a Fellow of the European Committee of Sexual Medicine in 2018. She has lectured nationally and internationally on Sexual Health, is a regular contributor to media and a guest on radio. Dr Heather is on the executive committee of the South African Sexual Health Association (SASHA) , member of South African Aesthetic Gynaecology Society (SAAGS), a team member of My Sexual Health and a credible sexual health provider. She is currently completing Interdisciplinary Chronic Pain Management Diploma at UCT, to improve our management of pelvic pain, sexual
pain and experiences of trauma.
Sexuality is how we present ourselves to the world and includes gender identity, body image and self esteem. Sexual health encompasses more than the physical act of intercourse......Our general wellness and sexual health are intertwined. As we are all sexual beings, we should confidently embrace what is natural, with consent, respect and safely.
"It's as though sex is now in the closet and it's okay to open the door a little bit, take out a beige outfit daily.....we need to throw those doors open and let all the colour and sparkle out! Enrich ourselves and our relationships with being comfortable to talk about sex'. Recognising psychological and physical components and influenced by culture, religion and social norms or ideals.
THESE LISTS ARE BY NO MEANS COMPLETE, BUT REPRESENT THE MOST COMMON CONCERNS
VULVA OWNERS
Women's Wellness Consultations
Libido/ Desire Identifying potential causes, hormonal, relational or underlying illness
Arousal, decreased or persistent
Lubrication & vaginal dryness
Orgasm & Anorgasmia
Pain during / after sex / deep or superficial, full history and examination at appropriate time, investigate cause, support and manage, may require pelvic floor physiotherapist involvement
Vaginismus, we appreciate and validate it may be complex and go at a pace comfortable with the patient, management with Btx injections into superficial pelvic floor muscles and pelvic floor physiotherapy
Hormones / Pre-menstrual tensionPMS)
Perimenopause and post-menopause management
Contraception insertion IUD’s, implants, ring, OCP etc.
Pap smears, HPV screening, HPV vaccine
Breast checks as part of women’s wellness checks and referral for mammograms as per patient age/ requirements
Sexual health; pre-natal, pregnancy and breast feeding effects on sexual health, what no-one tells new moms!
Lichen Sclerosis and other dermatology diagnosis and management or referral. Lichen Sclerosis can be treated with PRP at our practice.
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General health,
Skin checks, Blood Pressure, Triglycerides, Sugar, Haemoglobin done in rooms, urine, BMI
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Weight Loss, goal setting, measurements, support, various medical modalities, lifestyle, Mediteranean diet,
we have a Radiofrequency and Shockwave machine which melts fat, reducing centimeters and tightens skin.
A Lymph drainage machine to move excess fluid and excrete it, for both legs and arms.
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I am an activist for positive Body Image and positive genital image to enable confidence and comfort with our sexuality and sexual experiences.
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PENIS OWNERS
Erectile challenges, examination, lifestyle history, rule out medical causes
Ejaculation difficulties, premature or delayed
Prostate / PSA, pre and post prostate surgery support, important to maintain after surgery function. Work with a pelvic floor physio
Hormones, testosterone and other
Pelvic Pain, investigate causes, pelvic floor muscles, history
Libido, may be complex, requiring hormone profile, lifestyle factors, relationship factor
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Pre-marital counselling
Sex positive education
Sexually Transmitted Diseases, screening and treatment
HIV, screening and treatment, pre and post exposure prophylaxis
Relationships/ Trauma
Gender Transformation support
Sexual health during/ post Cancer treatment or major surgeries
Disability
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General Wellness
Physical Examinations, blood pressure, cholesterol, haemoglobin, glucose, BMI
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This is a very elementary list of services.
Please contact us for more information.
New Patient 60-min consultation
New Patient 30-min
Follow-up 30-min
Follow-up 15-min
On-line consultations available
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REGENERATIVE PROCEDURES
Female Vaginal Rejuvenation
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Non-surgical procedures to fill, enhance, tighten the vulva, mons pubis, labia minora and majora using different techniques.
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Fillers
To fill and enhance the labia majora and mons pubis.
Radiofrequency
Uses heat energy to tighten lose skin, mons pubis, labia majora, can reduce size of labia minora slightly (larger lips may require surgery if desired or necessary)
The opening to the vagina can be tightened with RF.
Platelet Rich Plasma (PRP)
Plasma rich product is extracted from your own blood, full of growth factors and stem cells and can be injected
into the mons pubis, labia majora, labia minora, into the vagina on the anterior wall where the "G" spot is located
and more vaginal sites, to stimulate your own production of collagen and elastin.......helps with dryness.
For women with normal sexual and orgasmic function the PRP can be injected into the clitoral tissue for enhanced orgasmic experiences.
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Remember that these are invasive medical procedures
and we screen our patients properly for expectations, sexual dysfunctions and do not promote or advocate a
'look'.
We are all made up differently and all bodies are beautiful.
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We have an IPL machine for hair removal, skin rejuvenation, pigmentation ....men and women welcome.
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Male RegenerativeProcedures
Shockwave Therapy
This is a non-painful treatment for men with Erectile Dysfunction from certain causes only. Low intensity focused waves are delivered along the shaft of the penis, the perineum and bulbospongiosis muscles. Physiologically it is stimulating new blood vessel growth. It requires a number of sessions and effect is usually appreciated after six to eight weeks.
Combination therapies together with PRP have shown good results.
It is still regarded as experimental but is widely used in Europe and USA.
Platelet Rich Plasma (PRP)
Your own blood is taken and spun in a centrifuge to separate the blood constituents. We take the plasma rich volume and inject into the shaft of the penis for erectile dysfunction and into the glans, head, of the penis for enhanced orgasmic experience.
Filler
Girth enhancement of the shaft can be created with filler injections. Works better if man is circumcised. Expectations are explored in consultation.
Filler may also be injected into the glans for men struggling with premature ejaculation and helps some.
These have been endorsed by the European Urological Society.
Scrotox
This is the injection of neuromodulating toxin into the scrotum to leave it smoother looking.
Some pain problems in the perineal area respond well to these neuromodulating agents.
Injecting into the head of the penis helps with increasing blood flow and a harder erect penis.
Injecting into the shaft also relaxes the smooth muscles allowing better blood flow with a firmer erection.
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Stockists of various products
Hormone support multivitamins
Libido Enhancers, men and women
Lubricants
Probiotics
UTI guard
Intimate wash (Ph friendly)
Toys/ Aids
(due to HPCSA guidelines we cannot mention product names)
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